How to fuck up V3

[Andy Fox]

So guess I am back, why do I make this thread? Well I fcked up. How? why? when? Stay tuned for some awesome dramaaction.

I guess once you have had gambling problems you'll never be free and the thing you can do is to isolate yourself.

So my new story goes like this been away from gambling so long, Gambles with a friend as a fun night. Wins alot of Money. Did not Think about it anymoore.

Time goes on, I get a text from a casino... Silly me I forgot to shut my account down. Before I Close it I Think to myself maybe just try my luck with 200kr so i did Notice this sentence NEVER GAMBLE WITH A GAMBLING ISSUE.

Guess what  won Moore Money then I almost really ever had on a gambling account. I'm talking well over 3xx'xxxSEK

1 sad day later Everything was gone. I did not even felt like I cared about the Money. But the anxeity hit me so hard the following Days and not only did I loose thoose Money but 100% of Everything I now owned and had saved up.

Because of this one slipup...

I had to quit my new studdies because I couldnt afford to travel to the internship was forced to take so far away from here...

I have low hours on my work due to I studdied.

Now at the end of the months I get all the bills as allways but no income.

I would like to personally thank gambling, my stupidity and Life.

about 15 Days im fcked because of my own stupidity. Sorry for my language.

The reason I'm Writing this is because maybe some of you might find it funny to see such a idiot others might be in the same situation and seek Comfort whoever you are just stop it's not Worth it if things go downhill they go downhill...

Now I have to sell stuff I own to pay the bills on 5000sek. How riddiculus aint that? I just hope I will manage.

[Nicola]

Andy,

First of all, thank you for sharing the story and admitting that you have a gambling issue.

While things at this moment in time may look bad, there are steps you can take to resolve the short-term problems of the bills.

Speak to all the companies that you owe money to, be honest with them and they will let you have additional time to pay. Prioritise the payments, pay the the most urgent ones first.

NEVER think you can get yourself out of debt by gambling more. 99% of the time this won't happen and your situation will get worse.

Cut-up bank, credit cards and close web-wallets. WIthin 5 minutes you can cut-off the sources that fund your gambling.

Think about using the free help available online. GamCare have a live chat-room up until 11PM CET where you can get advice and support.

Most problem gamblers never quit on the first attempt, slip-ups happen and you should never feel worse because you have failed.

Take care and remember help is out there.

[Andy Fox]

12 minutes ago, Nicola said:

Andy,

First of all, thank you for sharing the story and admitting that you have a gambling issue.

While things at this moment in time may look bad, there are steps you can take to resolve the short-term problems of the bills.

Speak to all the companies that you owe money to, be honest with them and they will let you have additional time to pay. Prioritise the payments, pay the the most urgent ones first.

NEVER think you can get yourself out of debt by gambling more. 99% of the time this won't happen and your situation will get worse.

Cut-up bank, credit cards and close web-wallets. WIthin 5 minutes you can cut-off the sources that fund your gambling.

Think about using the free help available online. GamCare have a live chat-room up until 11PM CET where you can get advice and support.

Most problem gamblers never quit on the first attempt, slip-ups happen and you should never feel worse because you have failed.

Take care and remember help is out there.

Thank you but I already created earlier threads about my issue. And how I managed to stop and so on.

Have had professional help 2 diffrent times now and also been on my own and it have worked fine. 

I was on the right track for so long. Then I fucked up this badly.

And theese companies that I need to pay I already done it to once. And they where not willing to help me out a second time and probably not a third time. 

Thank you I create my threads here because people like you give me healty advices and great support in my troubles.

[Ziexor]

The worst addiction of all is gambling addiction because it kill you from inside slowly. Please seek a theraput or something because all the pressure can make you do things(stealing;robbing,suicide etc) 

My best advice is to give up your finance to someone you trust 

 

Best regards

 

A gambler for 20 years and i am still fighting the addiction everyday. Feel free to send pm if you need